It's a pleasure to email you. I’ve been thinking lately – the difference between making it in special operations programs and not is whether or not a candidate is a true fighter. Anyone can get into shape, but not everyone is a fighter. I do have a question for you: do you think fighters are born, or are they made? Can I become a fighter?
Thanks for the email. I have to say it is a great question and one that is very similar to the age old question, "Which came first - the chicken or the egg?" But I will say I think it's a little bit of both. I personally had to work really hard to get to be average at certain athletic skills and sports growing up and had to work really, really hard to get above-average.
I likewise had to train even harder to go from powerlifting football player to pre-BUD/S shape in college. So I think it is a bit of the mentality that you might be born with of not giving up, never quitting, and stubbornness to achieve a goal. But, making it also requires a daily work ethic.
In my opinion, fighters are born with a certain set of skills and abilities, but they are made into a successful fighter, soldier, etc. by putting hard work and dedication into each and every day.